When you’re really looking to find a partner, it’s never wrong to seek some tips and tricks to make them notice you. Some people are great at it, others- not so much. There are certain ways to help you catch a woman’s attention, but what if you can only text or you want to impress her through your conversation?
You can seduce a woman with words by emphasizing conversations that make her laugh, feel comfortable and valued, and give her butterflies. Simple acts of praise, encouragement, showing your interest, and flirting with her from time to time – all when done the right way can attract her to you.
Interested in knowing how to use these tools? Keep reading!
Seducing a woman with words isn’t as intimidating or challenging as you might think, especially if you are nervous.
The following methods and examples will show you exactly how to go about it and succeed in getting her attention.
Before you kick in, keep in mind that your tone and expression, in any context, are always important. Observe her, and know when to say these words; I can assure you’ll hit success!
Acknowledgement is perceived as attractive to all genders: Humans generally love to be acknowledged for their efforts, but we usually do not get enough of it.
Acknowledging a woman is a sure-shot way to start getting her attention. She will feel appreciated and happier around you and try to constantly reciprocate the same effort.
Here are a few samples to kick-start your thought process.
1. “Oh wow, you must work really hard.”
Women love to be acknowledged for their careers.
This is best suited for first dates or when you’ve just started the conversation around your careers, especially when she’s enthusiastic about talking about her journey.
2. “Thank you for putting in so much effort for our evening.”
If you’ve gotten to know each other a little better, making sure that you take note of and appreciate the time, energy, and attention she gives you will help you grow her attraction towards you.
This is best used when concluding a well-planned date night.
3. “What would I do every morning without your coffee?”
Flirting and seducing shouldn’t end when you’ve had a long run with your partner.
When you’ve been together long enough, giving your partner credit for the little things they do every day that make up your life is an excellent way to go and keep the romance sparkled.
There is no better way to bond than to see each other’s true selves. When you put your own guard down, you convey that it’s a safe space.
By showing them that you are genuine, you allow them to do the same. This is why showing a vulnerable and honest side of you will help a woman feel more connected, safe, and at ease around you.
It doesn’t have to go out of the way but can be simple expressions such as:
1. “I get really nervous around you.”
Some butterflies are common when you’re attracted – don’t fall short in expressing how you feel. Letting a woman know that she has an impact on you is always a good thing to do.
2. “You make me feel so comfy!”
Similar to the above, you can also slide in an expression of your true feelings during jokes and fun moments.
When she’s making fun of something you do, you can shift the focus to how it is her presence that allows you to be this goofy or clumsy.
3. “Going out makes me really anxious but I didn’t want to hurt your feelings earlier. Can we just stay in tonight?“
A more specific way to show vulnerability is to let them know your fears and worries. You do not always have to do everything a woman wants just to impress her.
Giving her room to express her care for you and being honest about yourself will also improve connection and make her feel happy to have helped you.
Always talking about yourself gets pretty boring for everyone. A great way to draw someone’s interest is to ask questions and engage with their thoughts just as much as yours.
You could ask her a million different kinds of questions, but make sure they are genuine, appropriate, and respectful. Moreover, make sure you show just as much interest in what she has to tell you.
1. “What do you like to do when you’re alone?”
Questions about hobbies, interests, personal life, or workplaces are a great way to get to know her for the first couple of dates. They let her know you’re truly interested and ease her into your company.
2. “What’s your favorite thing about XYZ?”
Follow-up questions are a great way to engage people in conversations and shift focus onto them.
Whether you throw in a question about something she was already talking about or something you asked – your attention is definitely something she values at every stage.
3. “Am I your type?”
Flirty questions, when slid in smartly, are the perfect way to seduce a woman.
The actual question you ask her will always depend on the current status of your relationship with this girl – but it keeps the fire going at every stage.
Slide in questions about intimacy, relationships, or questions that insinuate you being with her.
Similar to acknowledgment, complimenting a woman gives her a feel-good moment about herself.
Having an array of positive feelings associated with your presence will go a long way and not make you come off as a freak.
Compliments work well irrespective of the kind of relationship you have with a woman – just ensure to tone them up or down accordingly.
1. “You’re so good at what you do! I wish I had that sort of dedication.”
Getting compliments on their work ethic is often not common for women.
Complimenting her on her talents, dedication, and the work she does is a way to make her happy and attracted to you at every stage.
2. “I love your hair when it’s up.”
Complimenting a woman on her appearance is common, but being specific will help you even more.
It shows that you pay attention to details, and when she’s into you – she’ll try and dress up in ways you told her you loved.
However, you should refrain from suggesting any erotic desires. It will make her uncomfortable.
Try to keep your focus on generic and apparent areas, but those that other people can often miss, such as when she got her nails done. Compliment her choices.
3. “That pasta you made for us was so delicious, I could have it every day.”
Another great way to compliment is to do it on her skills that go into the little things she does – especially if she does them for you.
Genuine compliments are a great way to build emotional intimacy. The more personal they are, the better.
A little humor never hurt anyone. Being able to joke around, poke fun at something and just laugh will help a woman ease up and feel free to be her true self.
However, when teasing a woman or joking about her, you have to be very careful not to nudge at something she feels deeply insecure about.
You should also consider the position of your relationship with her to decide what is appropriate and what is not.
1. “You’re so clumsy – I love it.”
Making fun of minor things, or things generally considered ‘cute’ about women clubbed with a positive note and tone, is a great way to tease her and make her feel a little giddy.
Telling her you love it or how it’s funny ensures that it doesn’t make her uncomfortable or insecure and instead eases her into your company.
2. “It wasn’t that funny. You’re a dud!”
Words like these are best used when merged with positive facial expressions or emojis.
A little smile or smirk can make it evident that you think she’s funny (or smart) but would not admit to it – leaving a mild flirtatious note.
3. “I can beat you at this game any day. Of course I’m better than you.”
Encourage a little bit of friendly competition – which can be used for both everyday activities or subtle teasing. Challenges will bring out a little spice and fun in whatever you do.
Contrary to popular belief, women love a show of interest. No better way to seduce a woman than to let her know she’s valuable and desirable – and your honest thoughts about her.
If you want her, let her know that. Depending on what stage the two of you are at will decide the depth and intensity of your words.
1. “I think you would make an amazing partner.”
This is an excellent line to use when you are not dating someone. It subtly lets the other person know that you think of them positively when it comes to the idea of dating.
They are also most likely to be flattered if they share the interest.
2. “I’m always happy to see you.”
The greatest method, over and over again, to truly seduce a woman for the long term is to make her feel appreciated.
Let her know you’re interested in her by noting the little ways she makes your day or what you love about her.
3. “I like you a little more with every passing day.”
Many women, whether new to your life or have been around, tend to feel a little doubtful from time to time.
Women are very likely to question your interest, and telling her that you only get more and more into her with time also makes it likely to strengthen her interest in you.
Similar to acknowledgment and appreciation, women love a person in their life that can push them forward.
It’s very attractive to women when you bring confidence and positivity and can help them become the best version of themselves.
1. “You’re so passionate, that’s what I love about you. You can’t give up on what you love.”
One of the prime ways we find attachment and affection is through hard times.
When a woman is down, use your words carefully to make her feel better about herself, and you are sure to land yourself some brownie points.
2. “You have my complete confidence. I’m sure you’ll be awesome on stage!”
Break down her insecurities and help her overcome them.
Letting a woman know that you trust them and their abilities will draw her even closer to you – especially if it’s something that means a lot to her but scares her too!
3. “Don’t worry about it. I’m always here to back you up.”
Women love to be seen as fully capable, but they also love to feel protected and safe. When not in action, words can also come into play to make her feel that way.
Let her know that she can trust you – with everything.
While affection is the go-to method, spicing things up occasionally is also essential. However, be careful with what you say based on what is appropriate in your particular circumstances.
Always first make sure that a woman is confident in her desire to engage in erotic conversation and is actively reciprocating it before you take it up a notch.
1. “What are you wearing tonight? Can’t wait to see you!”
It’s a little cheeky but not toeing any lines- a perfect statement for the third date.
During the initial stages, showing interest in appearance, especially clothing, can help a woman know that you are physically attracted to her and looking to take things forward eventually.
2. “I’m really good with my hands, don’t worry.”
As things get more comfortable, try to slide in subtle messages through everyday activities that are acceptable in the context but can also have a more sensual meaning.
Do note that the tone of voice and the setting are both essential to make this a success – but it will surely leave her thinking.
3. “That outfit is cute, but I think you’re cuter.”
Another note at clothing, but a higher focus on the woman is a surefire way to make her blush.
Feel free to step up and go a little out of the way to express your desires in a way that is comfortable to both of you – nothing more seductive than shared chemistry!
Extending the previous segment, if you’re already hitting it off well, just be direct with sensual messaging.
You’ve made her feel great about herself; she’s confident – and so are you, so why not just jump the gun? Shoot your shot.
1. “Your lipstick is distracting me too much. Can I take it off?”
What better way to drive sensuality than to bring attention to the lips?
Being specific and directing a woman’s attention to parts of her that drive you crazy and insinuating engagement in erotic activities without actually using the words is a great way to heat things up.
Although it doesn’t seem to be directly saying it, there’s no room for misreading your words.
2. “I had the wildest dream yesterday; you were in it.”
It’s common to use dreams to express desires you usually wouldn’t show in the real world.
Whether you’re really dreaming it or not, it’s such a common chat-up line that she will know exactly what you mean – and it still works every time!
3. “My bed misses you. Do you mind paying it a little visit?”
The “missing” card is a go-to if you’ve already gone to the next level. Adding a little quirkiness can make it sound fun and exciting but can also be molded to sound romantic – play with it however you want!
If you can’t think of something, just be honest. What’s one thing you miss about her in bed, or that which turns you on?
It just acts as a quick reminder of the moments you’ve shared, and the desire to have at it again. There are an array of ways you can express your carnal desires in respectable ways.
Take the creative liberty that sensuality and your individuality have to offer and come up with some of your own. After all, you want her to want you.
Since understanding and timing play such a massive role in seduction, you may not become an expert overnight.
While you may use any of the above methods, trying each out and noting how women respond will help you navigate towards what works for you and what doesn’t.
Take the opportunity to ask women about where you went wrong or what they prefer, and test that out too!
Make sure you are respectful, kind, and genuine – and you’ll find your key to confidently attracting the woman you want.